The internet has enabled people across the globe to connect with each
other. You make acquaintances with complete strangers and
develop friendships with people who live miles away from you. The
internet has also turned out be the major cause of infidelity in today’s times.
People think twice before cheating on their partner as there is a chance of
them being caught. However, you can easily get away with cheating on your
partner if you do it over the internet. You do not go out to meet someone
in person. You just need an internet connection on your computer or
cell phone to chat with them. You would naturally be worried if you find
out that your guy is chatting with multiple girls online. You want to confront
him about this but are not sure as to how do you go about it.
Make him stay away from the internet
Making your guy stay away from internet could be a difficult task as
people stay glued to their computer screens or smart phones browsing
through different websites. The internet has become a necessity these days and
people do not mind spending some money to get a good internet connection that
felicitates them to use it at a high speed. If you plan to make him stay away
from the internet, you have to think carefully about it. You could slyly
disconnect his internet connection or get him busy with something that would
leave him with no time to log on to social networking websites. It is
practically impossible to make him stay away from the internet for a very long
time but you could use whatever little time you get to get close to him.
Spend time with him
Why does he spend so much time on the internet? Are you not spending
enough time with him? There is no excuse for him chatting with
multiple girls behind your back. But, you could do something to ensure that
things do not get out of hand. Steal some time out of your busy schedule
and spend some quality time with him. Shut down his laptop, snatch away
his smartphone and urge him to talk to you. Ask him to go out with you on dates
and movie nights. Plan a weekend getaway to a place far away from the
city. It is very important to spend a substantial amount of time with your
partner when you are in a relationship. When you start dating someone, you
crave for their company and look forward to spending some time with them. If
that does not happen, people start losing interest in the relationship and
start looking for happiness elsewhere. If you spend enough time with
him and make him realize your worth, he will not go back to chatting with
girls over the internet.
Talk to guys online
Men tend to be less insecure than women in a relationship. He talks to
multiple girls without thinking how it affects you. If you want to make him
realize his mistake you should start chatting with guys online. An
important thing to be kept in mind here is that he should be aware of the fact
that you are talking to multiple guys on social networking websites.
There is no point in doing this if he remains oblivious to this fact. You have
to make him aware of it so that he gets jealous and starts feeling insecure. It
will force him to introspect and think about his own activities. He should
realize that what he is doing is wrong and must be stopped.
Talk him out of this
It could be difficult to talk to him about this but you have to muster
the courage for the same. Even he has not done anything wrong till now and has
refrained from saying anything inappropriate to the girls he chats
with, you have to make him understand that things can go wrong and he would not
be able to control himself then. Ask him why he spends hours talking to girls
who are strangers to him. He would not be able to give any explanation for the
same. If he is not doing anything that is wrong, why can’t he offer an
explanation for it?
Keep a check
Keep a check on his online activities. Find out how much time
he spends on social networking websites. If possible, try to get his password and
browse through his chat history to find out what he talks about. You can
breathe a sigh of relief if you do not come across something alarming. Having
said that, you should not let him talk to girls online. Even if there is
no problem at the moment, this habit of his could put your relationship at
risk. Once you discover that he is chatting with multiple girls online, you
must keep a track on his activities and should not let him hide his online life
from you.
The internet is turning out to be a major cause of concern for
individuals who fear that their partners will move away from them because of
this medium. Social networking websites are a boon because of the way they have
helped people connect with each other. However, they have also helped people
connect with strangers. You must make your partner limit his online friends’
circle to people he knows.
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