Both of you have known each other for quite some time now. You enjoy
each other’s company and look forward meeting on a regular basis.
Things are going real smooth and both of you realize that the feelings you
share for each other would require a broader term than friendship to be
encapsulated into. Maybe you are not in a hurry to get into a relationship with
and want to buy some time before deciding as to how to take things ahead. What
if he has already made his mind? What if he is absolutely sure about
his feelings and wants to take the plunge now.
He spends a lot of time with you
After he is done with his professional commitments, he prefers spending
all his time with you. Earlier, he would spare some time for his friends
but now all he wants is your company. He does not leave a single opportunity to
spend his time with you. This indicates his interest in you has only grown over
time and he seems to be getting more involved with you.
Makes sacrifices
He has made several sacrifices for you and has given up
a lot of things for the larger good of the relationship. He
would have never done what he did if he was not serious about the relationship.
He made those sacrifices as his priority is the relationship and he
did not want anything to come in the way of you and him. If he has given up on
so many things, then he definitely intends to get into a
serious relationship with you.
Remembers the dates
Very few people can boast of having all the important dates pertaining
to their relationship engraved in their mind. If he is one such
guy, then you should not let go of him. The guy who remembers these dates would
never forget you. From your birthday to the day you won an award, he remembers
all the dates. He cares for you and knows the value of the important events in
a relationship.
Talks about the future
A person who is looking for a fling or is in a
casual relationship would never talk about the future. He would live
in the present and refrain from getting into any conversation about the future.
Similarly, when a guy discusses the future about
the relationship, it means he is very serious about it and is looking for
a relationship that lasts for a long time.
Looks after you
A person who is in a casual relationship with you might treat
you well but he will not be that concerned about you. A person who is madly in
love with you will always look after you and make sure that you are okay at all
times. He will not think twice before arriving at your doorstep as and when you
ask him to meet. He will always keep your well-being above
everything else.
Introduces you to his family
If he was not serious about you, he would have kept
the relationship under wraps and have done everything possible to
keep you away from his family. A man will never introduce a girl to his family
unless he is serious about her and is sure about spending his entire life with
her.
Drops hints
You might be just about friends with him but there have been
several occasions where in he has suggested that you take your friendship a
step ahead and turn it into a relationship. If you have notice him dig
this or have got even the slightest of inkling of it, do not ignore him. If you
are interested too, tell him that. If not, inform him that you are
not interested in getting into a relationship with him.
Listens to you
He listens to everything you say and never says anything that
contradicts to your views. There are times when you do not say the most
appropriate thing but he still nods his head in agreement. When you realize
that you were wrong, you wonder as to why he did not object to what you said.
Only a person who is devoted to you would treat every wish of yours as his
command.
Talks about his past relationships
He has not any part of his life hidden from you and is honest about
everything. He talks to you about his past relationships and states the reasons
why they did not work. Probably, he wants to start everything on a
fresh note now that he is sure that you are the one he wants to spend the rest
of his life with.
Protective about you
You should never control your partner or try to curb their freedom.
Having said that, being a little protective is not a bad thing as it shows that
you are concerned about them. You should always try to look out for them
and know their whereabouts so that you can reach out to them whenever they need
you.
If you know that a guy wants a real relationship with you, you
should talk to them about it in an upfront manner. Do not act as if you are
oblivious of their feelings towards you. Of course, the decision rests upon you
as you whether you accept their proposal or not.
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