women, Abuse against women: Emotional and verbal abuse, Verbal abuse, emotional abuse.
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Abuse is one thing nobody wanna experience as it can damage the self esteem of the victim. You may not think you are being abused if you’re not being hurt physically.But emotional and verbal abuse can have short-term and long-lasting effects that are just as serious as the effects of physical abuse. Emotional and verbal abuse includes insults and attempts to scare, isolate, or control you. It is also often a sign that physical abuse may follow. Emotional and verbal abuse may also continue if physical abuse starts. If you have been abused, it is never your fault.
How can I tell if I’m being emotionally or verbally abused?
You may be experiencing emotional or verbal abuse if someone:
Wants to know what you’re doing all the time and wants you to be in constant contact
Demands passwords to things like your phone, email, and social media and shows other signs of digital abuse
Acts very jealous, including constantly accusing you of cheating
Prevents or discourages you from seeing friends or family
Tries to stop you from going to work or school
Gets angry in a way that is frightening to you
Controls all your finances or how you spend your money
Stops you from seeing a doctor
Humiliates you in front of others
Calls you insulting names (such as “stupid,” “disgusting,” “worthless,” “whore,” or “fat”)
Threatens to hurt you, people you care about, or pets
Threatens to call the authorities to report you for wrongdoing
Threatens to harm himself or herself when upset with you
Says things like, “If I can’t have you, then no one can”
Decides things for you that you should decide (like what to wear or eat)
How does emotional and verbal abuse start?
Emotional and verbal abuse may begin suddenly. Some abusers may start out behaving normally and then begin abuse after a relationship is established. Some abusers may purposefully give a lot of love and attention, including compliments and requests to see you often, in the beginning of a relationship. Often, the abuser tries to make the other person feel strongly bonded to them, as though it is the two of them “against the world.”
Over time, abusers begin to insult or threaten their victims and begin controlling different parts of their lives. When this change in behavior happens, it can leave victims feeling shocked and confused. You may feel embarrassed or foolish for getting into the relationship. If someone else abuses you, it’s never your fault.
What are the effects of emotional or verbal abuse?
Staying in an emotionally or verbally abusive relationship can have long-lasting effects on your physical and mental health, including leading to chronic pain, depression, or anxiety.
You may also:
Question your memory of events: “Did that really happen?”
Change your behavior for fear of upsetting your partner or act more aggressive or more passive than you would be otherwise
Feel ashamed or guilty
Feel constantly afraid of upsetting your partner
Feel powerless and hopeless
Feel manipulated, used, and controlled
Feel unwanted
Your partner’s behavior may leave you feeling as though you need to do anything possible to restore peace and end the abuse. This can feel stressful and overwhelming.
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What is gaslighting?
“Gaslighting” is the word used when an abuser makes you feel like you are losing your mind or memory.
An abuser might:
Deny an event happened
Call you crazy or overly sensitive
Describe an event as completely different from how you remember it
Gaslighting is a form of emotional abuse that abusers use to maintain power and control. When a victim is questioning her memories or her mind, she may be more likely to feel dependent on the abuser and stay in the relationship.
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