The idea of having the best, most beautiful, handsome and perfect lies in our own perception. This is where "one man's food is another man's poison". What looks beautiful to you might be another person's displeasure. In quest to have the best most people get used, tricked or disappointed.
One thing that is certain is that life doesn't give us any perfect person. They either have few qualities that you can cope with and work towards adding other qualities to him or her that will be acceptable to you.
Almost all the players have all qualities desired by a woman or man. This is because they are acting or playing a script to get what they want.
The moment you see somebody who matches all the qualities you expected or had in mind for love, just know that you are closer to depression, disappointed and regrets if you give a try.
Life is standard that you either change somebody or somebody changes you. You can't have it all with that which you expect or have in mind.
The moment you see him or her as all perfect or have all the qualities, just know that your brain is on leave and when it resumes you will know that life doesn't give people who they want but who they can change, mould, adjust and shape to be suitable for themselves.
A person that you change to be suitable for yourself last longer than the ready made, and you dont have to fight to keep them.
For anyone that is perfect, near perfect or close to perfection is full of pretense; an emotional scammer.
My opinion: have a person that can be changed, accept to be changed and desired to be changed to suit you. Also, for you to change someone suitable for yourself, you have to accept to be moulded too by the person. It works hand in hand.
If you see any perfect relationship/ marriage just know that you are seeing two wise people who never allow pride/ego to blurr their harmony but people who moulded themselves, shaped themselves and change themselves to be suitable for themselves.
When you keep dwelling in the valley of having someone with all the qualities in your mind, you will be disappointed to the point that you will start applying for hook ups in radio channels, online pages and dating sites when you are tired of getting disappointed.
Put it differently, if you need a tall person, life can bring you a short person who will make your life beautiful. If you need a short person, life can bring you a tall person who will make you feel being in heaven. If you need an oil worker, life can bring you a jobless person who will touch your soul making everyday worth living and still get a job later in life. If you need a holy person, life can bring you a sinner whom you can change.
You can't be part of a person's life or feelings without shaping, adjusting or moulding the person to be better; this is how one can create an unforgettable feelings and memory.
Does life give us a perfect person? The only people that are always perfect are players.
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Thanks for reading: FINDING A PERFECT PERSON IS FINDING A "PLAYER", Sorry, my English is bad:)